Wednesday, November 03, 2004

Decision time

Here's the situation...

I was flathunting yesterday and saw several places, nearly all of which I liked. Last night I was asked by a girl if I wanted to move in with her. The flat is in Maryhill, and although quite small, is very cosy and well looked-after, and there is also a cat. There is also a copious amount of public transport providing easy access to the city centre and the west end. The room is very nice and being high up, there are great views of the surrounding area (e.g. the Campsie hills and some Maryhill highrises). There are also plenty shops and supermarkets nearby. I think it's her place and she wasn't too bothered about getting me to sign a lease. When I went to view the place, we seemed to get on ok. Sounds good eh?

I have actually told her that I would move in and arranged to pick up the keys etc tomorrow. Nice and straightforward huh? Wrong.

Another place I'd seen is a flat just beside Byres Rd, in the heart of the west end. There lives a Scottish guy, an Austrian girl and a French girl - all students. When I went to see the place, I stayed for a while, had a coffee and a chat and it seemed ok. Whilst I was in, yet more girls appeared and came into the room. It all seemed rather good, being surrounded by all these girls! What is even better is that if I moved in I wouldn't have to pay council tax, for some (possibly illegitimate) reason. Also, the lease is also ridiculously relaxed (leave whenever, but give 28 days notice). The flat itself was ok; quite spacious, with large rooms, with the only drawback being a very small kitchen. I was told that it is a very open place, where the flatmates just sit and chat or go out. Basically, the main appeal here is an incredibly social atmosphere, the kind I'd always wanted but never quite got when I was at uni.

Anyway, I was phoned today by the guy who advertised the room and showed me the place. He said that they wanted me to move in - but I'd already chose the other place! I told him I was interested and would decide for definite shortly. I asked if I could sleep on it and let him know tomorrow and he said ok. He phoned back later to say that they really wanted me to move in - I kid you not! I couldn't believe my luck (can't help feeling there's a catch somewhere).

It's obviously a wonderful thing to be wanted as a flatmate by multiple parties, but now I essentially have to make a crucial decision - that of which place to choose. Both have very alluring but different qualities and I just can't seem to make up my mind. To add to the dilemma, both rents work out at about the same and also there is no strict lease for either place. Do I go with the student place in the heart of the west end, be surrounded by girls and go out all the time, or do I opt for the cosy quiet place, with the lovely rooms?

Effectively it comes down to home comforts vs social life, and my problem lies in wanting the best of both worlds.

3 Comments:

At November 4, 2004 at 12:21 AM, Blogger Andy said...

Hi,

Two things. Firstly, I agree with Iain about the flat, go for the more social one. Students are great. Also, Maryhill is nice, but byres road is nicer.

Secondly, back to the religeous debate. Sorry. I'm posting it here since you're probably more likely to read this one.

Don't confuse Lust with Love. They are two completely different emotions. Babies born out of lust are probably in a bad position since they are likely to be unwanted. Lust is just an initial "animal" attraction and desire. It is usually completely unfounded and is a feeling that will die as a short period of time. If there are any feelings after that then they usually are then love.

Business development and advancement don't come out of Greed. They come from wanting to better yourself and the world around you. That is not Greed. Greed is wanting more than you have, and what you don't have. Not because it will make you better. Just because you want it. You want to have more than anyone else. That is wrong. This is maybe a bit of a weak example, but Microsoft are greedy. They want to make as much money as possible and have the biggest market share, whether or not what they are doing is good or right or whatever. Then take open source development. Products are developed because people have a passion for what they are doing and want to advance the technology. The products are developed for free and make no money.
Also competitiveness isnt greed. Competitiveness can be bad if it is because you want to be better than someone, but if it is competitiveness to strive to be the best you can be then that is good. And that is where business development comes from.

Now, Anger is just wrong. Love would still exist. When you meet someone do you either for anger towards them or love them? No, you either like them or you dont like them, and in some cases you fall in love with them. Not liking them doesn't mean you feel angry with them. You would rather just not spend time with them, get to know them better.

Rant over. I guess you have probably just hit a nerve with this subject, but those three things cause conflict which is what causes wars etc (and not religion, don't get me started on that one).

Andy

 
At November 4, 2004 at 5:43 AM, Blogger Duncan said...

Good answer Andy! I pretty much agree with you, but I would still say that sin in moderation is a good thing, so long as it doesn't harm anyone else. Examples I can think of are gambling ("greed"), shouting at Windows when it crashes, then punching the screen ("wrath"), or chilling out on a Sunday with a hangover ("sloth").

The one I don't agree with at all is "gluttony" - I don't see any benefit of that at all. Also (goes to check 7 deadly sins on video cover of the film Seven), why is "pride" a sin? Is pride not a good thing? Is it not good to be proud of your achievements etc?

Anyway, regarding the flat situation, I'll keep you posted on how I get on. It's a toughie alright, but I'm swaying towards the more social place.

 
At November 4, 2004 at 11:40 PM, Blogger Andy said...

I think as long as you are not a devout christian then a little 'sin' is ok. But to say those three things make human life what they are is plain wrong, in my opinion.

I think gluttony is a sin as it is related to greed. If you think about it, they all have the same theme running through them - desire. And I guess the thinking is that too much of that is bad. As for pride, I think that it is a sin since man is supposed to be humble, and therefore pride cannot enter into that thought.

Andy

 

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